Will was sitting on the floor looking at his phone. It was day light and the room looked to be outside because of the vast amount of daylight coming in. He was looking at his phone while telling Nik a proposal. He proposed that to give him 20 minutes or so to take care of something and then we can come back and resume what we have planned. I walked back to my desk to sit at my computer to show agreement and Nik said yes but continued to play with his hair. When I sat my desk the desk was every cast in size and sat lower to the ground they what I remembered. It was dark gray in color. The room unlike the room Will was in felt and looked to be in the shadows. There was only one item on my desk which was a large boxed computer monitor. I sat at the chair feeling content because I understood that Will just needed time to focus on something else and that he was just in the other adjacent room. Then I am at a bar I am standing leaning in on the bar waiting for someone to take my bar drink order. . The bar is made out of oak and smoothed with the clear sealant making it feel smooth to the touch against my elbows. The walls were planted the color of the sun. I feel a man come up behind me and without notice he turns my head to the left as if he’s trying to crack my neck. I know who it is immediately without looking back because the shape, heat and energy from his body felt familiar and say to him “that felt really controlled . He asked “ does it turn you on?” I feel the heat of his face near the right side of my neck as he leans while pressing his body onto the backside of Mr body so he whisper the question he just asked in my ear. I said “”yes. Then I started to feel blood flow all the way to my pelvic area as he continued to hold/ pin my head down to the bar table. It’s like I decided to surrender to his control over me.
The dream you described can be interpreted from various angles, focusing on themes such as communication, control, and emotional responses. Here's a detailed interpretation of the different elements and scenes in your dream:
Will and Phone: Will represents an individual in your life (possibly even an aspect of yourself) that is needing some time to focus on something significant. The phone may symbolize communication or connection, suggesting that this person or part of you is trying to negotiate space for personal priorities.
Daylight and Shadows: The contrast between the room Will is in and your own desk area is significant. Daylight often symbolizes clarity, awareness, or freshness, whereas shadows can suggest introspection, hidden elements, or the subconscious. This may indicate a feeling of separation or contrast between two areas of your life or two states of mind—one being clearer and open, the other more confused or pensive.
Large Computer Monitor: This could symbolize focus and attention, given its centrality on the desk. It may represent a singular focus or challenge you are dealing with.
Feeling Content: Your contentment in understanding Will’s needs suggests harmony with giving or receiving personal space or time. Understanding that someone is in an adjacent room can also symbolize maintaining closeness and support while respecting boundaries.
The Bar: Bars can symbolize social interaction, liberation, or indulgence. The smoothness of the bar and the warmth might suggest comfort or familiarity.
The Man's Presence: The man behind you could represent a familiar energy or influence in your life. The neck-turning gesture might imply control, influence, or guidance that is both physical and psychological.
Familiarity and Control: Recognizing the person without seeing them suggests instinct or deep inner knowledge. The act of him controlling your head with a whisper about being "turned on" suggests a confrontation with vulnerability, surrender, or acceptance of someone's influence over you. The interaction combines elements of trust, as well as a sense of being overpowered or captivated, suggesting a complex dynamic of comfort and control in your relationships or situations.
This dream appears to revolve around a dynamic interplay of control and surrender, familiarity and newness, freedom and restraint. It examines both the comfort found in trusting relationships and the tension of feeling controlled or overpowered by emotions or external influences.
The various scenes and symbols in your dream could reflect inner conflicts about personal space, time, influence from others, or a desire for deeper intimacy and connection. It encourages reflection on how these elements play out in your waking life, urging you to consider where you feel the need to assert control or step back to allow personal clarity and growth.